ITLOTC 11-29-2022

We Need UBC
(by Jeff)

As we wrap up the year, I think about how we can do better as people. There is this idea that people suck and they suck for a good reason too. It's no surprise that I occasionally attend another church in town and one of the most common recurring themes that I hear is we are pretty terrible people and we still deserve the love and support regardless.

One of the things I noticed about UBC is that UBC has an open and welcoming community and that is refreshing. I am not saying that other church is NOT a welcoming place, just that they aren’t willing to affirm the LGBTQ+ community in fear of upsetting the extreme conservatives and those with "deep" pockets in their congregation.

I know that our community at UBC is small but mighty. We may not have the largest congregation in the area but we are absolutely a strong community. With that being said, I know that we need UBC and the UBCers know that we need UBC. To me the best way to ensure that we continue to have UBC is by the community contributing to the life of UBC.

I hope that as we close the year, that we can find it within our hearts and pockets to contribute to UBC in a strong and impactful way, preferably as a recurring giving rather than a one time giving. We want those who have been impacted by UBC to continue to have a place to call their worship home where they feel safe and welcomed.

An Illustrated Advent for Families: God With Us

You can find printed copies of these Advent packets to use at home on the big table in the lobby. If you’d like a digital version of this resource, you can download the packet at this link.

UBC Pastor Search

The Lead Pastor job description is now posted on our website. Please feel free to share!

Leadership Team & Finance Team Nominations

We are so grateful to Jose Zuniga for serving on LT these last several year, and he will be rotating off in December. We are asking for nominations to replace his spot on LT. Thanks for considering carefully if you are interested or if you know someone who might do a good job. We also have a few spots still open on our Finance Team. If you know anyone who would like to serve the church in this way, please send your nominations in.

If you have questions about serving on the Leadership Team or Finance Team and want to learn about what is involved, please feel free to read our bylaws or email LeadershipTeam@UBCWaco.org. Nominations can be sent to our email address or to any of our staff members.  

Update Your Mailing Address

We’re asking everyone to please share their current address so we can send you things like your annual giving statement, information about our fundraising efforts, and other important information from UBC. You can update your address at this link: https://ubcwaco.churchcenter.com/people/forms/450248

Carols, Cocktails, and Cookies - Sunday at 5:30pm

Please join us for this festive inaugural event at UBC. We are excited to hear different Christmas carols song by several different UBC’ers, and participate in the merriment with our angelic voices! UBC will be making some cocktails, and mocktails, for everyone to enjoy. What we ask of you: please make some cookies to share with the crowd. We will have some bags so you can take home different cookies people bring. We will also be putting up our Christmas Tree at UBC this week. Please bring an ornament to put on the tree to help us decorate. This will be a wonderful way to help kick off the Christmas season at UBC. If you have any questions, please contact toph@ubcwaco.org.

We still have significant financial need to cover before the end of the year in order for UBC to continue in the same way. If UBC is a place you care about and benefit from, please consider giving as you are able. You can set up one-time or recurring online giving here. Your presence with us is always valued, whether you are able to give or not.

Youth Volunteers

Volunteers are a critical part of UBC’s Youth Group - it’s no exaggeration to say that it literally would not run without them. We’re in need of volunteers to engage with the kids, particularly at our Wednesday night meetings, and to make sure everyone is safe. There is also plenty of room to use specific skills or experience you might have - whether that’s leading lessons, running games, or something else entirely! For more information click this link and/or email kieran@ubcwaco.org.

Youth Dinner

If you’d like to get involved with the Youth Group but can’t volunteer on Wednesday nights you can sign-up to provide youth dinner (cooked, bought, or otherwise!) instead. Sign up for that here and Kieran will reach out to you at the beginning of the week you sign up for to arrange details.

UBCYP Gathering - Sunday, December 11th at 6:30pm

Youth + 5th & 6th Grade Christmas Party - Wednesday, December 14th at 6pm

Mothers of God Liturgy - Thursday, December 15th at 7pm

Join us for a creative liturgy gathered around this Meister Eckhart quote: "We are all meant to be mothers of god, for God is ever waiting to be born".

Christmas Eve Service - Saturday, December 24th at 5pm

Christmas Morning Online Worship - Sunday, December 25th at 10:45am

Brunch Church - Sunday, January 1st at 10:45am

Find more details and our full calendar of events on our website. This calendar is updated frequently, so check back often!

🎉 Parishioner of the Week

The parishioners of the week are Kailey Towns and Emily MacDonald.

📖 Preaching Schedule

12/4: Kirk
12/11: Ryan Miller
12/18: Patrick Broaddus
12/25: Special Christmas Stream (Online Only)
1/1: Brunch Church!

💭 Share Your Feedback

You’re invited to share your feedback (good, bad, or in-between) about the goings-on at UBC! All comments will be shared directly with the UBC Human Resources team who will then share it with Leadership Team, Finance Team, or Pastoral Staff as needed. Share your feedback here: https://forms.gle/1ovkBXSx1Lu3CR448

Leadership Team

Ben Raley (benjaminraley@gmail.com)
Jose Zuniga (jzgrphix2002@yahoo.com)
Katie Valenzuela (katarinaevalenzuela@gmail.com)
Andy Clark (andyclarkmusic@gmail.com)
Aleigh Ascherl (aleighascherl@gmail.com)
Marcus Franklin (M_Franklin@baylor.edu)
Shelly Taylor (Shellytaylor76@gmail.com)
Katie Robinson (katiekrobinson@yahoo.com)
Margo Shanks (Margo_Shanks@baylor.edu)

HR Team

Erin Hill (erin.albin1@gmail.com)
Patrick Broaddus (patrickjbroaddus@gmail.com)
Craig Nash (craig_nash@baylor.edu)
Kristen Howerton (khowerton94@gmail.com)
Abbey Mackey (abbeyadizdar@gmail.com)
Jess Smith (jess_smith1@baylor.edu)

Finance Team

Colton Towns (cctowns@gmail.com)
Julie Sievers (juliehsievers@gmail.com)
Evan Kidd (evan.kidd1@outlook.com)
Ethan Cohen (ethancohen002@gmail.com)

ITLOTC 11-22-2022

Gratitude
(by Kirk)

You know, if we weren't careful we could walk through life with very little gratitude. I am one of those who tend to think that gratitude is a decision we make, rather than a way we feel about something. Things come our way, and how we respond says a lot about us...when we respond with gratitude, at least in my eyes, we are making the decision to think beyond ourselves and to be, well, grateful.

I can't lie. I'm not always a grateful person. Many times I find myself wondering why people don't bend to my will, whether they know my will or not. Seriously, they should know.

So, this week while we're sitting around the Thanksgiving table, whatever that may look like for you, and with whomever we may be seated, make the decision to be grateful. For the turkey, for the dressing (or stuffing), for however your table holds cranberries, and for the desserts...be grateful. For those who are there with you - whether they're on your very last nerve or just the first one - be grateful. For the moments you have away from the normal routine of life, be grateful.

And here's the trick...say the words, "thank you" to someone this week. While we can certainly make the decision to be grateful, until we say the words it is not quite real. Say the words. And in case you're looking for another way to show gratitude, here are a few things you might try:

1. Nurture the friendships you have.
2. Smile. Seriously, smile. It's a decision. Smile.
3. If you're cooking this week, cook with love, thinking of those with whom you will share the meal.
4. Live mindfully...not allowing the past or the future to dictate how THIS moment goes.
5. Listen. This week, practice the discipline of listening. This allows whoever is talking to you to know that they matter.

UBC Pastor Search

The Lead Pastor job description is now posted on our website. Please feel free to share!

Leadership Team Nominations

We are so grateful to Jose Zuniga for serving on LT these last several year, and he will be rotating off in December. We are asking for nominations to replace his spot on LT. Thanks for considering carefully if you are interested or if you know someone who might do a good job.

If you have questions about serving on the Leadership Team and want to learn about what is involved, please feel free to read our bylaws or email LeadershipTeam@UBCWaco.org. Nominations can be sent to our email address or to any of our staff members. 

Update Your Mailing Address

We’re asking everyone to please share their current address so we can send you things like your annual giving statement, information about our fundraising efforts, and other important information from UBC. You can update your address at this link: https://ubcwaco.churchcenter.com/people/forms/450248

Post-Thanksgiving Evening Service - Sunday, November 27th at 5pm

We hope everyone is gearing up for the Thanksgiving Holiday. We loved seeing many of you at Lovefeast this past week, and we look forward to bringing back another tradition this year: Sunday evening service the Sunday after Thanksgiving. It was a long UBC tradition that we would not have church on Sunday morning after Thanksgiving so we could give folks who were traveling time to come back for the service that evening. So, we are resurrecting the idea. On November 27th, there will be no morning service or SS at UBC. We will have our worship time that evening, at 5pm. Please join us for special UBC night service. If you have any questions, please contact toph@ubcwaco.org.

There will be no Youth, 5th and 6th Grade, or Pints events and no Sunday morning church this week. We’ll resume our regular schedule next week.

We still have significant financial need to cover before the end of the year in order for UBC to continue in the same way. If UBC is a place you care about and benefit from, please consider giving as you are able. You can set up one-time or recurring online giving here. Your presence with us is always valued, whether you are able to give or not.

Youth Volunteers

Volunteers are a critical part of UBC’s Youth Group - it’s no exaggeration to say that it literally would not run without them. We’re in need of volunteers to engage with the kids, particularly at our Wednesday night meetings, and to make sure everyone is safe. There is also plenty of room to use specific skills or experience you might have - whether that’s leading lessons, running games, or something else entirely! For more information click this link and/or email kieran@ubcwaco.org.

Youth Dinner

If you’d like to get involved with the Youth Group but can’t volunteer on Wednesday nights you can sign-up to provide youth dinner (cooked, bought, or otherwise!) instead. Sign up for that here and Kieran will reach out to you at the beginning of the week you sign up for to arrange details.

Youth Games Afternoon - Saturday, December 3rd at 1pm

Cocktails, Carols, and Cookies - Sunday, December 4th at 5:30pm

Please join us for this festive inaugural event at UBC. We are excited to hear different Christmas carols song by several different UBC’ers, and participate in the merriment with our angelic voices! UBC will be making some cocktails, and mocktails, for everyone to enjoy. What we ask of you: please make some cookies to share with the crowd. We will have some bags so you can take home different cookies people bring. This will be a wonderful way to help kick off the Christmas season at UBC. If you have any questions, please contact toph@ubcwaco.org.

UBCYP Gathering - Sunday, December 11th at 6:30pm

Youth + 5th & 6th Grade Christmas Party - Wednesday, December 14th at 6pm

Mothers of God Liturgy - Thursday, December 15th at 7pm

Christmas Eve Service - Saturday, December 24th at 5pm

Brunch Church - Sunday, January 1st at 10:45am

Find more details and our full calendar of events on our website. This calendar is updated frequently, so check back often!

🎉 Parishioner of the Week

The parishioners of the week are Brian, Maddie, Lucas, and Andy who shared their creative gifts with us for Christ the King Sunday.

📖 Preaching Schedule

11/27: Kirk
12/4: Kirk
12/11: Ryan Miller
12/18: Patrick Broaddus
12/25: Special Christmas Stream (Online Only)
1/1: Brunch Church!

💭 Share Your Feedback

You’re invited to share your feedback (good, bad, or in-between) about the goings-on at UBC! All comments will be shared directly with the UBC Human Resources team who will then share it with Leadership Team, Finance Team, or Pastoral Staff as needed. Share your feedback here: https://forms.gle/1ovkBXSx1Lu3CR448

Leadership Team

Ben Raley (benjaminraley@gmail.com)
Jose Zuniga (jzgrphix2002@yahoo.com)
Katie Valenzuela (katarinaevalenzuela@gmail.com)
Andy Clark (andyclarkmusic@gmail.com)
Aleigh Ascherl (aleighascherl@gmail.com)
Marcus Franklin (M_Franklin@baylor.edu)
Shelly Taylor (Shellytaylor76@gmail.com)
Katie Robinson (katiekrobinson@yahoo.com)
Margo Shanks (Margo_Shanks@baylor.edu)

HR Team

Erin Hill (erin.albin1@gmail.com)
Patrick Broaddus (patrickjbroaddus@gmail.com)
Craig Nash (craig_nash@baylor.edu)
Kristen Howerton (khowerton94@gmail.com)
Abbey Mackey (abbeyadizdar@gmail.com)
Jess Smith (jess_smith1@baylor.edu)

Finance Team

Colton Towns (cctowns@gmail.com)
Julie Sievers (juliehsievers@gmail.com)
Evan Kidd (evan.kidd1@outlook.com)
Ethan Cohen (ethancohen002@gmail.com)

ITLOTC 11-15-2022

Why We Do What We Do
(by Kieran)

Hello team! For those of you who may not have met me before, I’m Kieran, and I’m the Youth Pastor here at UBC. I wanted to use this space today to talk briefly about my philosophy in approaching Youth Ministry, and why we structure things at UBC Youth the way that we do.

Some background - I did not grow up as a Christian, nor were my parents Christian or involved in any faith practise. I became a Christian as a teenager in a Youth Group in my hometown, and it changed my life - not just because of my spiritual growth, but the ways I felt challenged and affirmed as a person at that stage in my life. Youth Group offered me the chance to figure out who I was apart from my parents, to find and develop friendships I still have to this day, and to learn what it was like to ask difficult questions and to be taken seriously as a young person.

My time in youth group and my reflection on my teenage years is really what fuels my passion for Youth Ministry. Youth Ministry is often treated as the first “stepping stone” on your way to becoming a Lead Pastor, but I would never want to do any other ministry job besides working with Youth. I feel like between the ages of 13-18, so much growth happens, so much development, so much searching and finding and questioning happens. You begin to colour outside the lines for the first time, you test limits and define boundaries, you really begin to ask the question for the first time: “Who am I?”; and that’s often followed by the question, “Who do I want to become?”.

To say that these years are formative feels like a gross understatement, to say the least. This is identity-discovering, existence-defining work that our teens are engaging in.

And so what is the role of Youth Group in all of that? The way I see it, it’s mainly 3 things. The first is to provide as safe a space as possible for teenagers to ask themselves and each other those questions. If they’re metaphorically throwing themselves from metaphorical horses to see how they metaphorically bounce, then a large part of my job is to lay metaphorical mats down for them to fall on to, and offer a very real hand and heart to help them back up when they need it.

The second thing is to answer questions they have, to the best of my ability. It’s at this age that I feel like you really begin to think about some of life’s most difficult questions - why do bad things happen? What does it mean to believe, or not, in God, or a god at all? Part of that is also being honest about the answers I don’t have - to be honest about where I struggle to find a way forward, to be honest about the questions I’m still asking. I find that often times people think that being honest with teenagers will frighten them - it has been my overwhelming experience that they tend to find solidarity in our doubts, that they find great comfort in knowing they’re not alone in how they’re feeling.

The third part of that is to facilitate community building for all of this to happen in; that’s really the most important thing to me. Despite how much I adored and grew so much from my own time in Youth Group, I don’t think I could recall any specific lessons from our Youth Evenings. What I do remember was the way I felt - I felt loved, accepted, I felt like this was a place I belonged, and that Church with a capital C was fundamentally a place that I could be safe, and it was a place I could bring my questions and my hurt. That’s not to say I don’t take teaching in Youth Group seriously - we tackle big topics on a regular basis, and I bring every ounce of theological training I’ve received over the years to bear on those lessons. But I’m also aware that I’m not really the one doing anything when it comes to the formation of our Youth - it’s Jesus working through me. What needs to stick, will stick; what isn’t all that important, will fade away. My top priority is loving each of our Youth in the way I know that Christ loves them, and how he loves me. I believe fully that God works through me to teach and minister to these kids, and that he is doing far more than I ever could on my own.

Which is really why I find space-making and community-building to be my top priorities. The lessons and knowledge are important, sure. But if these kids are anything like me, or anything like the countless other people I’ve talked to about their time in Youth Group as teenagers; if they’re anything like us, what they’ll remember is the friends they made, the love they felt, and the acceptance they knew,. They’ll remember that all of that came through people loving them for exactly who they are, because that’s exactly who God made them to be.

Leadership Team Nominations

We are so grateful to Jose Zuniga for serving on LT these last several year, and he will be rotating off in December. We are asking for nominations to replace his spot on LT. Thanks for considering carefully if you are interested or if you know someone who might do a good job.

If you have questions about serving on the Leadership Team and want to learn about what is involved, please feel free to read our bylaws or email LeadershipTeam@UBCWaco.org. Nominations can be sent to our email address or to any of our staff members. 

Update Your Mailing Address

We’re asking everyone to please share their current address so we can send you things like your annual giving statement, information about our fundraising efforts, and other important information from UBC. You can update your address at this link: https://ubcwaco.churchcenter.com/people/forms/450248

Youth - Wednesday, 6:00 pm at UBC

5th & 6th Graders - Wednesday, 6:00 pm at UBC

Pints w/ Toph - Wednesday, 6:00 pm at Pinewood

Youth Games Afternoon - Saturday, 1:00 pm at UBC

UBC Families Meetup-Mini Golf - Monday, 5:00 pm at Top Golf

What a better way to kick off the week, and shed some of the Monday blues, than hanging out with other UBC Families. Join us at Top Golf on Monday evening for a time of fun and fellowship. There will be free mini-golf, corn hole, and large table top games like Jenga and Connect Four. Bonus, if you need to feed your folks, Top Golf has some excellent food and beverages. No need to rsvp, but if you have questions, contact toph@ubcwaco.org

We are so encouraged by and grateful for the increased giving in October and November that will help us begin to offset the current budget shortfall. And yet, we still have significant financial need to cover before the end of the year if UBC is going to continue along in the same way as we have been. As always, we hope UBC is a place you care about and benefit from and we value your presence, whether you are able to give or not. If you value UBC and want to see our presence in this community sustained, please consider giving as you are able. You can set up one-time or recurring online giving here.

Youth Volunteers

Volunteers are a critical part of UBC’s Youth Group - it’s no exaggeration to say that it literally would not run without them. We’re in need of volunteers to engage with the kids, particularly at our Wednesday night meetings, and to make sure everyone is safe. There is also plenty of room to use specific skills or experience you might have - whether that’s leading lessons, running games, or something else entirely! For more information click this link and/or email kieran@ubcwaco.org.

Youth Dinner

If you’d like to get involved with the Youth Group but can’t volunteer on Wednesday nights you can sign-up to provide youth dinner (cooked, bought, or otherwise!) instead. Sign up for that here and Kieran will reach out to you at the beginning of the week you sign up for to arrange details.

Post-Thanksgiving Evening Service - Sunday, November 27th at 6pm

We hope everyone is gearing up for the Thanksgiving Holiday. We loved seeing many of you at Lovefeast this past week, and we look forward to bringing back another tradition this year: Sunday evening service the Sunday after Thanksgiving. It was a long UBC tradition that we would not have church on Sunday morning after Thanksgiving so we could give folks who were traveling time to come back for the service that evening. So, we are resurrecting the idea. On November 27th, there will be no morning service or SS at UBC. We will have our worship time that evening, at 5pm. Please join us for special UBC night service. If you have any questions, please contact toph@ubcwaco.org.

Youth Games Afternoon - Saturday, December 3rd at 1pm

Cocktails, Carols, and Cookies - Sunday, December 4th at 5:30pm

Please join us for this festive inaugural event at UBC. We are excited to hear different Christmas carols song by several different UBC’ers, and participate in the merriment with our angelic voices! UBC will be making some cocktails, and mocktails, for everyone to enjoy. What we ask of you: please make some cookies to share with the crowd. We will have some bags so you can take home different cookies people bring. This will be a wonderful way to help kick off the Christmas season at UBC. If you have any questions, please contact toph@ubcwaco.org.

Youth + 5th & 6th Grade Christmas Party - Wednesday, December 14th at 6pm

Mothers of God Liturgy - Thursday, December 15th at 7pm

Christmas Eve Service - Saturday, December 24th at 5pm

Brunch Church - Sunday, January 1st at 10:45am

Find more details and our full calendar of events on our website. This calendar is updated frequently, so check back often!

🎉 Parishioner of the Week

The parishioners of the week are Jess Smith and Roy Carney for stepping up as last-minute subs in our kids classrooms on Sunday.

📖 Preaching Schedule

11/20: Christ the King Sunday
11/27: Kirk
12/4: Kirk
12/11: Ryan Miller
12/18: Patrick Broaddus
12/25: Special Christmas Stream (Online Only)
1/1: Brunch Church!

💭 Share Your Feedback

You’re invited to share your feedback (good, bad, or in-between) about the goings-on at UBC! All comments will be shared directly with the UBC Human Resources team who will then share it with Leadership Team, Finance Team, or Pastoral Staff as needed. Share your feedback here: https://forms.gle/1ovkBXSx1Lu3CR448

Leadership Team

Ben Raley (benjaminraley@gmail.com)
Jose Zuniga (jzgrphix2002@yahoo.com)
Katie Valenzuela (katarinaevalenzuela@gmail.com)
Andy Clark (andyclarkmusic@gmail.com)
Aleigh Ascherl (aleighascherl@gmail.com)
Marcus Franklin (M_Franklin@baylor.edu)
Shelly Taylor (Shellytaylor76@gmail.com)
Katie Robinson (katiekrobinson@yahoo.com)
Margo Shanks (Margo_Shanks@baylor.edu)

HR Team

Erin Hill (erin.albin1@gmail.com)
Patrick Broaddus (patrickjbroaddus@gmail.com)
Craig Nash (craig_nash@baylor.edu)
Kristen Howerton (khowerton94@gmail.com)
Abbey Mackey (abbeyadizdar@gmail.com)
Jess Smith (jess_smith1@baylor.edu)

Finance Team

Colton Towns (cctowns@gmail.com)
Julie Sievers (juliehsievers@gmail.com)
Evan Kidd (evan.kidd1@outlook.com)
Ethan Cohen (ethancohen002@gmail.com)

ITLOTC 11-8-2022

As you’ve heard from the past few Sundays, UBC is raising awareness to the fact we have been running in a financial deficit for much of the year, and we are seeking to be transparent about our current situation.  As LT has been giving updates the past few weeks, there is a part of the conversation I am always drawn back to: Waco needs a place like UBC.  Waco needs a place where women and our LGBTQIA+ community are completely affirmed, and Waco needs a community where you will not be marginalized because of your past, your questions, your look, political/social/theological views.  Waco needs a community who celebrates how God has uniquely crafted you through your journey. 

I deeply love the community we have been able to build during my 12 years here, and I love the fact we are more diverse now in every way, than when I came onto staff in June 2010.  Back in 2019, when we entered a discernment process as community around building use and pastoral autonomy, I had the privilege of preaching the 3rd sermon, and I have been reflecting on those words this week:

“And let me be as bold to say that the world needs UBC.  In an age in which we have news at the tips of our fingers, and we are unable to control our tongues and our typing: when we quickly condemn what we see in a video, to then receive condemnation for what we didn’t, and then realize maybe we should have waited for a clearer picture along: the world needs the Church.  And in an age when more and more churches are demanding conformity and seeking to be homogenous, thus creating spaces where diversity is at worst not welcomed, or at best tolerated; the world needs UBC.”

So, for those of you reading this article (which I assume means you have a connection to our community and affinity for our thriving), I wanted to say thank you.   Thank you for ways in you which you love and care for UBC.  Thank you for your generosity in the giving of your time, your resources, and your finances.  Thank you for helping to make UBC who she has been, who she is, and who she will be in the future.  UBC would not be the same without you.  I will leave you with a quote from Cole Arthur Riley’s book, This Here Flesh, about belonging: 

“We don’t just welcome you or accept you; we need you.  We are insufficient without you.  One part’s absence renders the whole impoverished in some way, even if the whole didn’t previously apprehend it.  In mutuality, belonging is both a gift received and a gift given.  There is comfort in being welcomed, but there is dignity in knowing that your arrival just shifted a group toward deeper wholeness.”  

Embrace Beauty,
Toph

Stories from our Congregation – Listening to LGBTQIA+ voices (CW)

We are looking forward to our 2nd installment of stories from our congregation this week. We have three folks who will be sharing some of their journey with us this Sunday, and I am excited to be formed more into the people of God through their witness. I did want to offer a content warning for Sunday morning. Depending on what our friends share with us on Sunday, it is likely you will hear stories which include trauma and abuse, at the very least you will hear stories about how the church has done harm to the queer community. If you have any questions about this coming Sunday, please contact toph@ubcwaco.org

Leadership Team Nominations

We are so grateful to Jose Zuniga for serving on LT these last several year, and he will be rotating off in December. We are asking for nominations to replace his spot on LT. Thanks for considering carefully if you are interested or if you know someone who might do a good job.

If you have questions about serving on the Leadership Team and want to learn about what is involved, please feel free to read our bylaws or email LeadershipTeam@UBCWaco.org. Nominations can be sent to our email address or to any of our staff members. 

Update Your Mailing Address

We’re asking everyone to please share their current address so we can send you things like your annual giving statement, information about our fundraising efforts, and other important information from UBC. You can update your address at this link: https://ubcwaco.churchcenter.com/people/forms/450248

LGBTQIA+ and Allies Meetup - Friday, 6:30pm

We are having our monthly meetup this week at Lindsey Yaros house on Friday night. This is a great time to come hang out and get to know other UBC’ers. If you would like the address for this week’s meetup, please contact toph@ubcwaco.org

Women's Group-Hangout - Friday, 7pm at Tiffany Covert’s

Youth Coffee with Kieran - Saturday, 1pm at Pinewood Coffee

Thanksgiving Lovefeast - Sunday, 5:30pm at UBC

It’s the most wonderful time of the year! This coming Sunday is our annual Thanksgiving Lovefeast! UBC will be providing the turkey and ham, and we need you to bring a side dish or dessert to share. This is always a fantastic time, with incredible food, and you don’t want to miss out. Join us Sunday evening at 5:30pm, and get your holidays kicked off right.

We hope UBC is a place you care about and benefit from. If you value UBC and want it to stick around, please consider giving as you are able. You can set up one-time or recurring online giving here.

Youth Volunteers

Volunteers are a critical part of UBC’s Youth Group - it’s no exaggeration to say that it literally would not run without them. We’re in need of volunteers to engage with the kids, particularly at our Wednesday night meetings, and to make sure everyone is safe. There is also plenty of room to use specific skills or experience you might have - whether that’s leading lessons, running games, or something else entirely! For more information click this link and/or email kieran@ubcwaco.org.

Youth Dinner

If you’d like to get involved with the Youth Group but can’t volunteer on Wednesday nights you can sign-up to provide youth dinner (cooked, bought, or otherwise!) instead. Sign up for that here and Kieran will reach out to you at the beginning of the week you sign up for to arrange details.

UBC Families Meetup-Mini Golf - Monday, November 14th, 5-7pm

What a better way to kick off the week, and shed some of the Monday blues, than hanging out with other UBC Families. Join us at Top Golf on Monday evening for a time of fun and fellowship. There will be free mini-golf, corn hole, and large table top games like Jenga and Connect Four. Bonus, if you need to feed your folks, Top Golf has some excellent food and beverages. No need to rsvp, but if you have questions, contact toph@ubcwaco.org

Youth Games Afternoon - Saturday, November 19th, 1pm

Post-Thanksgiving Evening Service - Sunday, November 27th at 6pm

Cocktails, Carols, and Cookies - Sunday, December 4th at 5:30pm

Youth + 5th & 6th Grade Christmas Party - Wednesday, December 14th at 6pm

Mothers of God Liturgy - Thursday, December 15th at 7pm

Christmas Eve Service - Saturday, December 24th at 5pm

Find more details and our full calendar of events on our website. This calendar is updated frequently, so check back often!

🎉 Parishioner of the Week

The parishioners of the week are Sarah Nelson, Alex Lux, and Emily McDonald who consistently go above and beyond in their service to our children’s ministry.

📖 Preaching Schedule

11/13: Listening to Our Congregation: LGBTQ Folks
11/20: Christ the King Sunday
11/27: Kirk
12/4: Kirk
12/11: Ryan Miller
12/18: Patrick Broaddus
12/25: Special Christmas Stream (Online Only)
1/1: Brunch Church!

💭 Share Your Feedback

You’re invited to share your feedback (good, bad, or in-between) about the goings-on at UBC! All comments will be shared directly with the UBC Human Resources team who will then share it with Leadership Team, Finance Team, or Pastoral Staff as needed. Share your feedback here: https://forms.gle/1ovkBXSx1Lu3CR448

Leadership Team

Ben Raley (benjaminraley@gmail.com)
Jose Zuniga (jzgrphix2002@yahoo.com)
Katie Valenzuela (katarinaevalenzuela@gmail.com)
Andy Clark (andyclarkmusic@gmail.com)
Aleigh Ascherl (aleighascherl@gmail.com)
Marcus Franklin (M_Franklin@baylor.edu)
Shelly Taylor (Shellytaylor76@gmail.com)
Katie Robinson (katiekrobinson@yahoo.com)
Margo Shanks (Margo_Shanks@baylor.edu)

HR Team

Erin Hill (erin.albin1@gmail.com)
Patrick Broaddus (patrickjbroaddus@gmail.com)
Craig Nash (craig_nash@baylor.edu)
Kristen Howerton (khowerton94@gmail.com)
Abbey Mackey (abbeyadizdar@gmail.com)
Jess Smith (jess_smith1@baylor.edu)

Finance Team

Colton Towns (cctowns@gmail.com)
Julie Sievers (juliehsievers@gmail.com)
Evan Kidd (evan.kidd1@outlook.com)
Ethan Cohen (ethancohen002@gmail.com)

UBC Kids November 2022

Hi friends,

I’m sending this email out a little later than planned because that’s the season I’m in right now. I’m sure I’m not the only one who feels this way toward the end of each year. Life has gradually (but also kind of all at once) become abundantly full—overly packed with delights and obligations both mundane and magical—and it’s a bit more than I can gracefully manage.

This is one of the reasons why I love living alongside the rhythms of the liturgical year. By the time we reach the end of November, I need something to help slow me all the way down to a stop. It’s not that I’m bothered by the rest of the world rushing merrily into (and then often right past) Christmas. It’s just that I need reminders to slow, stop, and savor. Otherwise I wind up going so fast I start to lose focus and miss what really matters.

I say yes easily. No is harder. So for me, Advent is a season of shedding those heavy layers of obligation, of setting aside my thirst for approval and drive to perform, of intentionally “missing out” on lots of fun things and great opportunities. But that’s the best way I know of paring down to what is essential and true so I can make space for the things—and especially the people—that are uniquely mine to care for and to keep.

Advent begins on November 27 and I can’t wait to begin this season of waiting and hoping and longing with you and your kids. We’ll have some Family Advent packets for you to take home soon, to help you embrace this gift of slow time together as a family. Until then, I’m praying for us in the midst of all this fullness. May the balance of abundance tip toward delight rather than obligation, and may even the most mundane moments be shot through with the magic of grace.

In hope,
Brooke

P.S. This Sunday during church, we’ll be listening some of the LGBTQIA+ voices in our congregation. We have three folks who will be sharing some of their journey with us and are excited to be formed more into the people of God through their witness.

We do want to offer a content warning: Depending on what our friends choose to share with us, it is likely we will hear stories that include trauma and abuse. At the very least we will hear stories about how the church has harmed to the queer community. If you have any questions, please contact toph@ubcwaco.org.

For the Month of November

On Sunday mornings from 10:45-noon, our 2-year-olds through 4th graders are busy learning who God is and what God is like through the stories of scripture. Our lectionary-based curriculum is fun, interactive, and tailored to each age group. In the month of November, they’ll be learning...

On Wednesday evenings from 6:00-8:00, our 5th and 6th graders are exploring the overall story arc of scripture and how it connects to the foundations of our faith. They’re walking through the Old Testament with an eye toward understanding the history of God’s people and adding context for who Jesus is and why Jesus is so important. In November they'll be exploring...

We’re working on something special we can offer our offer 5th and 6th graders on Sunday mornings. In the meantime, we do want to extend a heartfelt invitation for our 5th and 6th graders to join the Youth group in the backside from 9:30-10:30.

Use the lesson links above to download the corresponding Family Pages so you can continue these conversations with your kids at home. (You can also find printed versions of the Family Pages on the UBC Kids bulletin board at church.)

For Your Calendar

Thanksgiving Lovefeast - Sunday, November 13th at 5:30pm

UBC Families Meetup-Mini Golf - Monday, November 14th, 5-7pm

Post-Thanksgiving Evening Service - Sunday, November 27th at 6pm

Youth + 5th & 6th Grade Christmas Party - Wednesday, December 14th at 6pm

Christmas Eve Service - Saturday, December 24th at 5pm

UBC Family Retreat - Friday, March 3-Monday, March 6

For Your Family Formation

My two favorite family traditions of the year are our Advent wreath and Advent calendar. These are sweet, simple ways to mark the passing of this season together as a family—to wait and hope and watch the light grow together.

I am not crafty, so we keep our Advent wreath pretty simple. Last year I set five votive candles on a platter and put them in the center of the dining table, it doesn’t have to be fancy. Although if you happen to be crafty and that’s something that gives you life, by all means, go to town! (And send me pics, please?) The first week of Advent, we name and light one candle, then each week as we go along we add another and another until we reach Christmas day and light our fifth and final candle, the Christ candle. There are lots of different ways to name the themes and mark the time, of course. (More on that below.)

Our Advent calendar was a gift from family at Addie’s first Christmas, but there are lots of options to either make or buy here, too. We tuck pieces of a tiny nativity behind the doors of our Advent calendar (baby Jesus arrives on Christmas day), with an occasional sweet or treat. I try to include a couple notes with a “special activity” we were probably going to do anyway (like watch a Christmas movie in our pajamas with popcorn and hot cocoa or bake Christmas cookies and share them with friends and neighbors). I’ve loved finding tea Advent calendars the past couple years and I even saw a dog treat Advent calendar the other day. What I’m saying is, the world is your oyster if you want an Advent calendar! I think the point, though, is the family ritual and the shared anticipation.

My friend Jenn at Sacred Ordinary Days has been curating and sharing resources for each liturgical season, including Advent, for seven years. If you’re looking for ideas (or other traditions to make your own), this is the place to start. She shares playlists for each season, as well. And her early podcast episodes walking through the liturgical seasons are a treasure. I revisit them every year.

ITLOTC 11-1-2022

Moving back to Waco after a decade in North Carolina, one of the things I was most excited about was finding church. Our family spent ten years in a warm and wonderful yet very remote, rural town with about 3 churches to choose from. Someday I hope to fill a book with everything that small town taught me about community, caring, and what it really means to belong. Spoiler alert: I found myself profoundly formed by a place, people, and congregation that I wouldn’t necessarily have chosen if left entirely to my own devices (and given unlimited options).

And yet, I was looking forward to having more opportunities available in Waco—especially for our precocious nine-year-old. I had visions of godly play and contemplative ritual dancing in my head. A delicate balance of open-handed, non-pressurized invitation and undeniably compelling teaching that would include everything I want my daughter to internalize (and nothing that I don’t). Plenty of room for doubt and mystery but also a really solid foundation. Plus, you know, a progressive theology that included full affirmation of every Christ-follower to preach, teach, serve, and belong. In Waco, Texas. Bless my idealistic little heart.

We spent almost two years visiting church after church, all three of us talking through our hopes and fears, the places and ways we felt near to and far from God’s presence, where we felt at home or at least well welcomed, what still seemed to be missing, and what our next steps might be. God used that process to gently rearrange my priorities, reminding me that we are most profoundly formed by the people around us, so that when we walked into UBC last February we knew, pretty much instantly—these our people, this is who we want to be formed by and with.

All this was echoed and reinforced for me during our recent Children and Youth Formation Conversation. As a parent, I am so grateful for the thoughtful, compassionate, and generous ways that UBCers think about nurturing faith in our youth and children. And as your temporary/part-time/substitute children’s minister, I am blown away by the kids, youth, parents, volunteers, and staff who embody that approach day in and day out.

UBC staff left that conversation with several key takeaways. Some of them are simple and immediately actionable. Others will take a little time to build into place. All of them feel like a fit with who we are as a church—and who we want to be.

  1. 5th and 6th graders on Sunday mornings: Our 5th and 6th graders have outgrown the kid stuff but they’re not quite Youth yet, and they’re the only age group that doesn’t have something just for them. We’re still working through what we might offer that is uniquely for them during the worship hour. In the meantime, we do want to extend a heartfelt invitation for our 5th and 6th graders to join the Youth group during Sunday School from 9:30-10:30 on Sunday mornings.

  2. Clearer communication about what 5th/6th graders do on Wednesday evenings (and how it differs from youth group): On Wednesday evenings our 5th and 6th graders meet in their own group at the same time that Youth group meets. This is a time of community formation, spiritual formation, and fun. Over their two years in this group, these older kids have a chance to walk through the entire story arc of the Bible, spending one year on the Old Testament and one year on the New Testament. It’s still pretty structured, but we’re beginning to make more space for conversational learning and for their own expressions of faith.

  3. 5th and 6th grade eating with youth on Wednesday evenings: This is something we plan to begin soon, as we think it makes sense both logistically (especially for our families with kids in each group) and formationally (it’s a good way to begin easing into the youth group gradually while keeping age and maturity-level in mind for more in-depth discussion).

  4. 7th and 8th grade curriculum: This seems like the right age to begin transitioning from the highly structured curriculum we use through 6th grade and begin a shift toward more exploratory, discussion-oriented approach. At the same time, we want to continue to lay foundations of faith that will serve these young adults well as they grow. We’re looking at moving toward a study based on the Apostle’s and/or Nicene Creed, where leaders and kids walk together through these confessions of faith, perhaps pairing them with some simple yet meaningful practices.

  5. More training and resources for volunteers and parents (and everyone, really): Our volunteer training covers basic UBC policies and practices and helps ensure every child in our care is safe and loved. Moving forward, we’d like to supplement that with some additional learning opportunities, not just around faith formation, but also diversity, equity, belonging, and inclusion. Our hope would be to make these opportunities available to everyone who is interested.

Above all else, this is an ongoing conversation, one that we will continue to make space for on a regular basis. We’ll be sharing more updates here as well as on Sunday mornings as things continue to take shape. For now, thank you for being people who speak generously and listen faithfully, and who not only hope for but also work toward great things for every single member of this body.

Grace and peace,

Brooke

P.S. I’m sending out another monthly UBC Kids email next Monday. I’d like to say I won’t be as long-winded there, but I can’t make any promises. ;) To get that email, please click here and check the box next to Children and Families.

📬 Update Your Mailing Address

We’re asking everyone to please share their current address so we can send you things like your annual giving statement, information about our fundraising efforts, and other important information from UBC. You can update your address at this link: https://ubcwaco.churchcenter.com/people/forms/450248

It is starting to feel like Fall, and nothing says fall more than friends, fire, and s’mores. Please come join us at the Dodson’s house on Friday, November 4th. This is not a dinner party, but we will be have all the fixins needed to make s’mores. UBC will also provide some bottled water, so if you want another beverage, please bring it. You can sign up on Sunday morning, or email Toph. If you have any questions, email toph@ubcwaco.org.

Belief & Belonging Festival - Saturday, November 5th at UBC

UBC is hosting Waco's first TEDx-style event! The Belief & Belonging Festival will feature local and national speakers and performers (like our very own Jamie McGregor!) exploring ideas around how what we believe, once believed, and/or are trying to believe impacts when/where, and how we belong or once belonged. Virtual tickets are also available with access to both the livestream and a 72-replay option. Use this code ubchome at checkout and receive $10 off General Admission tickets!

For more information or ticketing, visit the Eventbrite page, Instagram or Facebook. You can also contact, Sharyl West Loeung at sharylwl@gmail.com.

Coffee with Kieran - Saturday, 1pm at Pinewood Coffee

Youth Movie Afternoon - Sunday, 1pm at UBC

ubc[creatives] meetup - Sunday, 2pm at UBC

Join us for our second gathering of ubc[creatives]. We will be bringing together some art that we have made and talking about our processes. If you'd like to create around the prompt offered at the first meeting, just email jamie@ubcwaco.org for details.

Giving for the month of October exceeded expenses! This is a strong move toward offsetting our year-to-date deficit. As always, we hope UBC is a place you care about and benefit from. If you value UBC and want it to stick around, please consider giving as you are able. You can set up one-time or recurring online giving here.

Youth Volunteers

Volunteers are a critical part of UBC’s Youth Group - it’s no exaggeration to say that it literally would not run without them. We’re in need of volunteers to engage with the kids, particularly at our Wednesday night meetings, and to make sure everyone is safe. There is also plenty of room to use specific skills or experience you might have - whether that’s leading lessons, running games, or something else entirely! For more information click this link and/or email kieran@ubcwaco.org.

Youth Dinner

If you’d like to get involved with the Youth Group but can’t volunteer on Wednesday nights you can sign-up to provide youth dinner (cooked, bought, or otherwise!) instead. Sign up for that here and Kieran will reach out to you at the beginning of the week you sign up for to arrange details.

LGBTQIA+ and Allies Meetup - Friday, November 11th at 6:30pm

Women's Group-Hangout - Friday, November 11th at 7pm

Coffee with Kieran - Saturday, November 12th at 1pm

Thanksgiving Lovefeast - Sunday, November 13th at 5:30pm

UBC Families Meetup-Mini Golf - Monday, November 14th, 5-7pm

Post-Thanksgiving Evening Service - Sunday, November 27th at 6pm

Cocktails, Carols, and Cookies - Sunday, December 4th at 5:30pm

Christmas Eve Service - Saturday, December 24th at 5pm

Find more details and our full calendar of events on our website. This calendar is updated frequently, so check back often!

🎉 Parishioner of the Week

The parishioners of the week are the Carlsons for providing Youth dinner last Wednesday.

📖 Preaching Schedule

11/6: Kieran
11/13: Listening to Our Congregation: LGBTQ Folks
11/20: Christ the King Sunday
11/27: Kirk
12/4: Kirk
12/11: Ryan Miller
12/18: Patrick Broaddus
12/25: Special Christmas Stream (Online Only)
1/1: Brunch Church!

💭 Share Your Feedback

You’re invited to share your feedback (good, bad, or in-between) about the goings-on at UBC! All comments will be shared directly with the UBC Human Resources team who will then share it with Leadership Team, Finance Team, or Pastoral Staff as needed. Share your feedback here: https://forms.gle/1ovkBXSx1Lu3CR448

Leadership Team

Ben Raley (benjaminraley@gmail.com)
Jose Zuniga (jzgrphix2002@yahoo.com)
Katie Valenzuela (katarinaevalenzuela@gmail.com)
Andy Clark (andyclarkmusic@gmail.com)
Aleigh Ascherl (aleighascherl@gmail.com)
Marcus Franklin (M_Franklin@baylor.edu)
Shelly Taylor (Shellytaylor76@gmail.com)
Katie Robinson (katiekrobinson@yahoo.com)
Margo Shanks (Margo_Shanks@baylor.edu)

HR Team

Erin Hill (erin.albin1@gmail.com)
Patrick Broaddus (patrickjbroaddus@gmail.com)
Craig Nash (craig_nash@baylor.edu)
Kristen Howerton (khowerton94@gmail.com)
Abbey Mackey (abbeyadizdar@gmail.com)
Jess Smith (jess_smith1@baylor.edu)

Finance Team

Colton Towns (cctowns@gmail.com)
Julie Sievers (juliehsievers@gmail.com)
Evan Kidd (evan.kidd1@outlook.com)
Ethan Cohen (ethancohen002@gmail.com)